I just want to tak the time to mention the need for real compassion in the world. We all have beautiful things to offer and equally valuable reasons to be alive. If we were meant to be alone he would have stopped at Adam. Some of us may not have family and it is our freinds that get us through those times when we all need a shoulder to lean on. Others may not have either, try and notice each other you never know when a smile, hug, or seemingly small gesture could make all the differnence in someone life. Its not your job, or belongings that matter in the end, I beleive the most important things are our interactions with others and it is the way we treat each other that you will be held accountable for.

      To the husbands and wives, we all change, it is inevitable. Allow and expect this in your partner. Used to be when we stayed married forever, we only lived to be about 30. Now forever is along time and it takes alot of work to make it. Building a life with another helps us to be successful, gives us someone to hold us accountable, another person to help share the load, remember the beautiful memeories, and hold our hand when our father takes us home. It is something to be extremly proud of, to be able to make this promise in front God, family and friends, and then actually do it, all the way, man thats really something. Your word is really all you have, and the only thing you must have to make it ...the one thing that you can't do without in a marriage is commitment, when the want is missing, and the need can't be found, it is the commitment that will hold it together. Remember when you speak to your partner that this is the person YOU choose to be with forever, careful what you say, if they are not giving you what they did in the beginning, ask yourself am I doing all the things I did in the beginning? Men... court her, Ladies... wow them, just as you would have the day you met.